If your man keeps in touch with his ex, here’s what it means
1 He still has feelings for her
They had a specific cause for splitting up, yet it did not stop them from thinking about one another. He believes that the breakup was a poor choice. It was done in a hurry and ruined a perfectly good relationship in the process. He wants to reunite with her. That does not imply that she will feel the same way, though. With time, it will most likely disappear.
2. He never wanted to break up
He wanted to stay in the relationship. But his ex was hell-bent on ending it. He stays in touch with her in the hope that she will rethink her decision and resume the relationship.
3. He unhappy in the present relationship
He is dissatisfied with his current relationship. He thus looks to the past relationship for contentment. His ex-girlfriend feels familiar, therefore he likes to keep in touch. He is too exhausted to give the new connection any effort. For the person he is now dating, that is regrettable. Such carelessness should not be tolerated by them.
His unhappiness in the present relationship can stem from two things:
– Incompatibility – That’s a real problem. No one should stay in an unhappy relationship because they are too scared to admit the truth.
– Still being in love with the ex – One should admit the true feelings. Being in a relationship with someone and loving someone else can’t go on for long.
4. They are friends
Their bond was too fragile to be destroyed by the breakup. He is still in contact with his ex because of this. But there is still a potential for reconciliation. Two pals fell in love. They might fall in love once more. However, they will never make the same mistake twice if they had a bad relationship experience, thus they will never get back together. Their friendship outweighs their romantic relationship. A ten-year friendship cannot be discarded because a two-month relationship did not work out.
5. He constantly needs to know what she is up to
They were extremely competitive as a couple. It was a toxic and unhealthy relationship that had to end in a breakup. However, he still likes to keep tabs on his ex. The unhealthy competition is not over yet.
He competes with her over jobs, salary, hot partners, and property. He wants to stay a step ahead of her at all times. Sometimes he succeeds; sometimes, she does. But the contest goes on. In the process, they stay in touch with each other.
6. He wants to tσrmєnt her
He is a mean person who gets a kick out of his ex-girlfriend’s misery. He moved on long ago (at least he says so) but still contacts his ex to unnecessarily nudge her.
He loves tσrmєnting her. This can happen in two scenarios:
He is aware that she is still attracted to him. He enjoys giving her unrealistic expectations. After a few hours, he enjoys revealing all of the romantic undertones that he has built up in this talk. Because she is still in love with this toxic guy, the girl consistently falls for his evil plans.
– She doesn’t want to talk to him. She has nothing to do with this expired relationship. But he still finds ways to irritate her in unique ways after regular intervals.