Many women become involved or even obsessed with the wrong partners – ones who treat them badly. So why? This article will give you the answer

1. She thinks that everything is her fault in the relationship.

A woman may believe she is to blame for all relationship problems, therefore she may accept his mistreatment of her. She believes that she is to blame for all the negative aspects of the romance.

2. She believes that she is deserving of terrible treatment.

She occasionally feels so bad about something she did in the past that she believes other guys should treat her horribly. She may feel that her guy has every right to treat her harshly because she is not doing enough in their relationship. That kind of thinking, though, can be highly harmful. In any romantic connection, no one ever deserves to be mistreated.

3. She thinks she won’t be able to find someone better.

She is aware of the poor treatment she is receiving. She knows that she is not worthy of receiving such appalling treatment from a loved one. However, because she is unsure if she would find someone better than him, she will not want to leave him. She worries that the guy she is now seeing would not treat her as well if she starts dating someone else. She attempts to put up with his awful behavior as a result.

4. She believes that her love can still change him.

She is always filled with hope and has a real belief in love’s power. She actually believes that love has the capacity to transform beings. She understands that her man is rough and terrible. She leans that her man really needs some work. However, she does hope that the rationale of loving his man would motivate and inspire him to be a better person.

5. She lets her love blind her to the bad treatment.

She thinks that everything is okay. Why? She loves him too much to see his bad side. She loves him too much to see his terrible ways and tactics. She loves him too much to acknowledge the fact that he’s just bad for her.

6. She mistakes being used for being loved.

She is a girl who would always want to be caring for those they love dearly. She is a natural nurturer. She is always thinking about taking care of the people that she loves. She thinks that, when people are receptive to her love, she is being loved in return. However, that isn’t always true. So many times she will be just to be used for what she has. She’s not being really loved in return.
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7. She doesn’t KNOW that she’s being treated badly because of worse experiences in the past.

She has been used and abused in too many worse ways in her past that when she’s in a better relationship, when she isn’t being maltreated as much as she had been before, she thinks it’s a good thing. In fact, she’s still in a miserable relationship. She is still in an abusive and toxic relationship environment. She just thinks it’s okay because it’s so much better than what she has been used to.

8. She is desperate for love even if it hurts her.

Despite how much it hurts her on the inside, all she wants is to be in a meaningful relationship. What she does not realize, though, is that lasting love does not actually hurt. But she is unable to distinguish between the two. She is so desperate that she is almost blind. She has fooled herself into believing that everything is acceptable and fine because of her desperate need for affection.

9. She is too afraid of being alone.

Perhaps she just relies on him to get the financial stability that she gives him. Or maybe she just feels like she would never be able to make it alone in the world. Even if being in a toxic relationship, it makes her more uncomfortable to be single.