Why when men are bored with their wives, instead of divorcing, do they choose to have an affair?
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My husband and I share 10 years of marriage during which we developed such understanding that communicating becomes unnecessary for us to know each other’s desires. Time passed until I realized that my life lacked novelty because my wife repeatedly put me first in everything she did.
Life continued the same way despite my mistakes since she never considered leaving me possibly because this produced my incorrect decision to have an extramarital relationship. I never considered divorce or abandonment of my wife since all I required was something fresh.
2.
For me, my wife is always the best, but sometimes I still feel like I have feelings for other women. In my opinion, men often have many interests, like other people but cannot leave their wives.
3.
We have celebrated our union with my wife since five years ago. Our relationship has been destroyed by continual conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law throughout the past five years. My mother continues to express complaints about every situation but my wife maintains firm determination in her choices. I started an affair because home problems became intolerable and I was seeking someone for friendship.
4.
Once my wife and I divorce, we will have to pay a lot, including property, relationships, children, reputation… So, even if I have an affair, I will never divorce, I don’t want to risk it. Change everything you have.
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To be honest, it feels like I no longer feel anything for my wife after living with her for a long period, but I have not filed for divorce yet. I believe that marital affection exists in addition to love. In any case, we are parents to two kids together. I will not leave my wife and kids, even if I have feelings for someone else.