Camera recorded the scene of a couple sleeping in bed at midnight, mother-in-law sneaked in and did something shocking
Besides parents, grandparents are the ones who love their grandchildren unconditionally, and can even sacrifice anything for their grandchildren. Couples in the process of caring for and raising children always have the support and help of grandparents, which is a blessing that not everyone has.
Recently, on a social networking forum, a clip was shared by a home camera recording a scene in a couple’s bedroom in the middle of the night that moved everyone who saw it. Accordingly, while the couple was hugging each other and sleeping, with their newborn son lying next to them, a “character” from outside rushed straight into the room and climbed onto the bed.
It is known that the person is none other than the mother-in-law, the child’s grandmother. Many people are curious, wondering what the grandmother is doing in her son’s family’s private room at 11 o’clock at night. It turns out that after watching the whole thing, everyone is shocked. The grandmother was worried about her grandson who was sick with a fever, so she kept going in and out to check his temperature.
Grandmother takes care of her sick grandchild, worried all night without sleep.
While the parents slept soundly, the grandmother was always on duty from 11pm to 2-3am. Every few hours, she would go into the room, use a thermometer to measure her grandson’s temperature, and cover him with a blanket. At first, the child had a fever of 38 degrees, and by morning, the temperature had dropped to 36. Seeing that her grandson’s fever had gone down, the grandmother was relieved.
As much as people sympathize with the grandmother, some people blame the mother in the video. Because the child is sick like that, the parents hug each other and sleep soundly, not worrying about their little child at all. It seems that because they know that the grandmother will support them, that is why these parents have entrusted the entire responsibility of taking care of their sick child to the grandmother.
However, some parents also spoke up to defend the parents in the video, saying that it was probably because the couple was tired from taking care of their child during the day and were exhausted by night, so they took turns letting the grandmother take care of the child. What parent wouldn’t feel sorry for their sick child?
In fact, the trend today is that most young parents or first-time mothers who lack experience, in the first years of raising children, want to receive help from grandparents. Because grandparents are the ones who know very well what methods of raising children are appropriate and effective.
But do grandparents have a responsibility to care for and raise their grandchildren? The answer is no!
Taking care of and raising children is the duty and responsibility of parents. In case the parents are no longer around and are unable to raise them, the life of the child will be decided by law depending on who. Considering the above actual situation, the two parents have not really encountered too much difficulty in raising their children, so this responsibility still belongs to them and grandparents can only be the ones to support and can decide whether to take care of them or not.
Therefore, this only requires an agreement between the parties, parents and grandparents.
However, in general, the period of caring for young children is not too long, only about 3-5 years. For young people who want to strive for a career, there really are not enough resources. If the elderly at home have the ability and time, they should still help.
This is a common opinion that many parents and grandparents agree with. Because this not only solves the problem but also helps increase the affection between family members, parents and children, grandparents and grandchildren.